Teaching English to children can be one of the most fulfilling parts of your career as an ESL teacher – but also one of the most challenging. Young Learners bring energy, curiosity, and playfulness, but they also require constant stimulation, clear boundaries, and creative approaches that keep lessons engaging.
Whether you鈥檙e teaching a group or a one-to-one student, these 11 useful tips – based on experience, research, and classroom-tested techniques – will help you create lessons that are effective, memorable, and fun.
1. Understand that children are not 鈥渟mall adults鈥
The most common mistake teachers make is assuming children learn like adults. They don鈥檛 – they have shorter attention spans, they learn by doing rather than by listening, and they need emotional as well as intellectual engagement. Tailor your teaching to their developmental level, and adjust your expectations accordingly.
For example, five-year-olds need very short, playful activities with lots of repetition and movement. Ten-year-olds can handle longer tasks, mild competition, and some reflection.
2. Keep lessons active and hands-on
Children learn best when they鈥檙e moving, speaking, interacting, and creating. Build your lessons around activities that get them out of their seats and fully engaged: songs, drawing, games, role-plays, and group work all help make language memorable.
Even controlled grammar practice can be physical – for example, running to the right flashcard on the wall or forming human sentence chains.
3. Use games – and use them well
Games aren鈥檛 just filler. They鈥檙e a powerful way to teach grammar, vocabulary, and skills in a context children enjoy. Research, for example by Saricoban & Metin (), highlights how games improve motivation, cooperation, and retention by creating meaningful, communicative contexts where learners want to participate and use language.
Good games are designed with a clear linguistic goal – such as practising 鈥淚鈥檇 like…鈥 or reinforcing past tense verbs. They also involve as many students as possible at the same time and stay at the right level of difficulty.
One of my favourites is Circle Swap:
- Students stand in a circle holding cards. One is in the middle.
- Teacher calls out two words; those students swap while the middle student tries to grab a spot.
- The language is practised repeatedly while the children stay engaged.
4. Keep your explanations short and clear
Children鈥檚 attention spans are limited – and shrink further if you鈥檙e just talking at them. Give clear, simple instructions and then demonstrate rather than over-explaining.
If an activity flops, don鈥檛 dwell on it. Move on to the next one. Keeping the pace up keeps the energy up.
5. Review and recycle language constantly
Children don鈥檛 retain new language just because they saw it once. Build review into every lesson: start by revisiting material from the previous session and keep recycling grammar and vocabulary in different contexts.
For example, if you taught 鈥淚’d like鈥 in the last class, use it in the warm-up game, again in a listening activity, and once more in a writing task.
6. Encourage self-correction in a supportive atmosphere
Even young children can learn to notice and correct their mistakes – if they feel safe and supported. Model simple ways to check and rephrase, and encourage them to help each other in pairs.
Praise effort as much as correctness, and avoid public shaming or sarcasm (yes, I鈥檝e seen teachers do this). A child who feels safe is far more likely to keep trying.
7. Adapt your approach for one-to-one lessons
Teaching a child one-to-one has its own rewards – and its own challenges. Without peers to interact with, you need to provide all the energy and variety yourself. But it also allows you to tailor lessons precisely to the child鈥檚 needs and pace.
Here鈥檚 how to succeed when teaching a child one-to-one:
- Have a big repertoire of two-player games – and play with full enthusiasm.
- Level the playing field by giving them a head start or assigning yourself extra tasks.
- Use timers or challenges to make activities exciting.
- Avoid making them feel like they鈥檝e failed – always adjust so they finish on a high.
- Offer extras like DVDs or comics to take home and keep practising subconsciously.
8. Adjust for age and maturity
A three-year-old, a nine-year-old, and a teenager all need very different approaches.
- Very young children (3鈥6): Use songs, gestures, and toys. Avoid competitive games. Keep activities under five minutes each.
- Older children (7鈥12): Introduce mild competition, longer tasks, and some self-reflection.
- Teens (13+): Make lessons relevant to their lives. Use projects, discussions, and more sophisticated role-plays.
9. Manage your classroom with clear routines
Children thrive on structure. Set clear rules and routines from day one, and be consistent with them. Use non-verbal signals like clapping patterns or hand-raising to get their attention instead of shouting.
Keep lessons fast-paced and don鈥檛 leave gaps – idle children get distracted quickly.
10. Plan lessons with variety and flow
Children respond well to predictable rhythms, but with enough variation to stay interesting. So when you’re planning a lesson, variety matters. Here鈥檚 an example flow that works well and keeps things moving and balanced. (This is just one way of doing it – you’ll need to adapt it to your students, their age, and their energy levels.)
- Welcome & settle in (2鈥3 mins) – Greet each child warmly, establish a routine (e.g., line up, sit in a circle), and sing a quick hello song or do a simple chant to signal the start of class.
- Warm-up game & review (5 mins) – A fun, high-energy game reviewing key language from the last lesson. Use movement and props if possible to wake them up and grab attention.
- Introduce new language (5 mins) – Keep it very short and clear: use flashcards, toys, gestures, and chorus repetition to present 1鈥2 new words or a simple structure.
- Controlled practice (5鈥7 mins) – Practice the target language through a structured game or activity. Keep everyone involved (e.g., passing games, matching games, TPR).
- Movement break (2鈥3 mins) – A quick song, dance, or stretching game to reset energy levels before the next activity.
- Freer practice (5鈥10 mins) – A more open-ended game or creative activity (e.g., role-play, acting out, drawing and describing) where kids use the target language in context.
- Wrap-up & praise (3鈥5 mins) – Review what they learned, sing a goodbye song or chant, and give specific praise to each child (鈥淵ou did a great job asking for the ball!鈥).
11. Use the right materials
Children benefit from concrete, visual, and interactive materials. A few essentials:
- Flashcards (DIY or bought)
- Real objects (toys, packaging)
- Songs and chants
- Storybooks and comics
- Short videos or cartoons (without subtitles)
Don鈥檛 underestimate the motivational power of a colourful prop, a silly song, or a comic book – they can make the difference between a bored student and an engaged one.
Final Thoughts
Teaching children ESL isn鈥檛 always easy – but it鈥檚 incredibly worthwhile. With the right mindset, tools, and techniques, you can turn your lessons into something they look forward to each week.
Bring energy, patience, and playfulness, and remember: your goal isn鈥檛 just to teach English – it鈥檚 to help children feel confident, capable, and happy to learn.
When they leave your class smiling and proud of what they accomplished, you鈥檒l know you鈥檙e doing it right.






7 comments
Rasamee
I agree. Children can’t concentrate on long speech. They tend to stop listening and start talking with their peers. Short and to the point is needed when giving instructions. And children love being praised. I also use this strategy with my beginner adult class and it really works. They seem to be so proud of themselves when they are praised after completing activities. It appears that the positive feedback they obtain encourages them to speak more in class.
DD
I have taken a job working at a new English school teaching intensive classes to children and teens. I don麓t think it’s very common to have an intensive ESL English class for children. I think 3 hours is a long time to keep children in a class. Is this normal in some schools? If not, shall I mention it to the director who is the owner of the school? To make a suggestion? I have read the advice given for teaching children because as I mentioned before 3 hours is a long time and I need all the ideas I can get.
Chris AKili
Hey @DD, I also teach children and teens; I would love to know how you handled that situation because I also have the same problem. Are the 3 hours working for you?
Hania Ghazi Yassine
What has been mentioned here is very interesting. I have found that children acquire language faster than adults although they might not have the proficiency. The reason they learn faster is because they want to be part of the whole group. They want to play, communicate and express themselves and they don’t care if they make mistakes. Teaching children needs a proficient teacher that has the skills and sense of humour to make children want to learn.
Kurt
For trained teachers, this is not new information but I do see it as a refresher, reminder; something to get you back on course just in case you were going through the teaching motions and not really thinking about the psychology of teaching ESL.
Margaret
Yes, positive, positive stimulation, energy definitely. But any ideas for me? I teach EFL to European teenagers at a Riding School in the UK. It’s the parents idea for them to work on their English when they’d rather be out on the back of a horse. I have a complete age and ability range every 2 weeks, e.g. last week I had 13 students ranging from 8 to 17 in a basic hut in a field. Luckily the 8 year old was motivated to try to keep up with the others but sometimes that’s not the case… Any suggestions would be welcome!
Dana, Hainan Island, China
Good ideas to remember. However, students have different attention spans even with games and your school expects you to get a certain distance in the textbook. My school has three hour classes for nine-ten year olds to learn English. All they can handle and enjoy is one hour. Few want to learn English for 3 hours with thirty other students in a room that is about 82 degrees and humid!